~trinika

If you have a question about something or a problem with something that you think is going on in a friendship just ask someone. I learned this today when I found out a large group of my friends had gotten together to have a grad dinner, yet I wasn't invited. I brooded over it for about 2-3 hours until I finally just bit the bullet and asked why I wasn't invited. It turns out that when this dinner was planed with was supposed to be the start of the LAN party that some of my friends had been planning for a while. I am never invited to these events considering I am a girl a while just much of a gamer if not more so then some of them I can not sleep over with 10 guys. In the beginning it was only going to be a small group as it was being payed for by the father of one of my friends. At 70$ each it got to be pretty expensive when other people found out about it and began to invite themselves. 10 people in all... That equals a lot of money.

The point is I could have saved myself a whole lot of grief and worry about why I wasn't invited if I had just asked in the first place. I just asked politely why and got a good soul soothing answer out of it. Don't internalize your problems, they will just poison you in the end.

On another topic, aren't you proud of me Sarah I will finally be able to stop spaming your comments with my mini blogs.